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When Excess Brings Chaos

03.22.2010 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

We, as Americans, live in a world of excess. The amounts of excess vary from person to person. We may not think we have excess but usually because that’s because we’re looking at what the next door neighbor has. Or the guy in the office across the hall. Or that really popular couple at church.

In the last few years, because of the places we’ve traveled and the experiences we’ve had I, more often than not, find myself thinking of the truly needy in this world.

Growing up I’m sure my mom thought I was a lost cause in the “excess” department. I was the collector – knick knack, clothes, books. But some how when I went away to college it’s like a switched flip. Suddenly on my own, in charge of my own space, I became a model organizer and a regular purger of unnecessary stuff.

I’m not claiming that I am perfect, that I don’t collect anything – just look at my collection of scrapbooking stuff (currently collecting dust in the corner of my bedroom).  But I purge often, and sometimes with reckless abandon. I have probably swung even further to the other side to compensate for my dear, sweet husbands um, well, non-purging tendencies.

This weekend was the semi-annual switching out of the seasonal clothes. We’ve had gorgeous sunny weather with highs in the 70s and it was time to get out the summer wear. For 3 days my living room looked like a textile factory that exploded. As I pulled out the 2 bins of girls clothes and begin to separate them into piles I was struck by the excess.

We do laundry every weekend, at the longest going 8 days in between laundry washing. I counted up Natalie’s shirts – some that fit her from last summer and some that Beza no longer fit in that got added to her pile.

27 shirts…for a 7 year old. One that comes downstairs in mismatched colors half the time.

Noah’s shorts were almost as bad.

As I was pulling the winter shirts off of hangers I realized there were shirts that went unworn the entire season.

So I declared war on the excess clothing and set out to whittle their clothes down to a respectable amount. We found 10 pairs of shorts, 10 matching shirts. We went through the winter stuff and, before we put it away, pulled out the too scratchy, too tight and “ugly” shirts that apparently were NEVER going to get worn.

I ended up with 2 bags of hand me downs for a friend. 2 bags for Goodwill and 1 bin for my nephews.

I supposed I need to tackle my closet next?

Categories // Faith, Family Matters, Featured Articles Tags // organizing, purging clothes

Design with a purpose

03.13.2010 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

I love beautiful things! As a creative person I just love to be around beautiful things. I can spend hours in a scrapbook store not because I need to buy a bunch of stuff, but because I love to look at the paper designs and all the beautiful things that someone has created. It’s why I love photography. It’s why I love interior design. I try to blame clothes shopping on it as well.

A few days ago one of my friend posted a video about Raven & Lily, a non-profit studio dedicated to empowering impoverished women through design partnerships and micro-enterprise opportunities. What I love about Raven & Lily is that there not just using these women to MAKE the products, but they’re involving them in the design process. What a beautiful way to instill confidence in these women!

After I watched their amazing video (below), I of course had to take a peek at their web site and absolutely fell in love with two things:

This and this 

Isn’t that necklace GORGEOUS. Plus it’s made by women in Ethiopia. Unfortunately a little bit out of my price range right now. I DO have a birthday coming up dearest husband 🙂 But the bracelet made my shopping list for sure. They’re currently out of stock on the blue so it was a debate between the black and white and I had to get my friends involved with a Facebook poll. And then I ignored most of them.

The black was my first instinct because I wear a lot of black. But there is something about the clear beaded one that intrigued me. It’s a little dressier but then the leather and snaps make it casual so I could imagine it with nice jeans and a cool top. The majority of my friends voted for black (they know my wardrobe well) but in the end I ordered the clear. Can’t wait til it comes!

Watch this video that tells more about their mission and then head over to the Raven & Lily shop to check out some beautiful and unique items.

Raven+Lily: EMPOWERING WOMEN THROUGH DESIGN from raven and lily on Vimeo.

Categories // Featured Articles, Orphans & Social Justice

Apparently my son’s gluten free diet is not going as well as I thought…

01.26.2010 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

We switched 10-year-old Noah to a gluten free diet in October to help with his ADHD (in addition to being preservative free and dye free). There have definitely been some struggles and a learning curve as we find new foods he likes, recipes for things like hamburger buns etc. He has hard days where he’s tempted to eat the leftovers his friends are all to willing to share with him in the lunchroom. But overall I thought we were doing pretty well. Then today I found this in his school folder… (translation is below if you can’t read it)

I laughed so hard. Glad to know he thinks so highly of my cooking skills.

Here’s the typed version…

I hate my diet for  many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many reasons. First off it keeps me from having a lot of my favorite foods. I’d list them and the other foods I like that I can’t eat but that take a year or two. Second of all most of the food I can eat is disgusting because usually it has to be homemade. And last but not least, one of the hardest parts of a diet, the sweets. They are limited & I mean limited! There is only one kidn of candy I can have Hershey’s & Hershey’s Kisses. And dessert is probably the hardest part of anything my diet could throw at me. No kid (except my little sister Natalie) should have to go through dessert choices as limited as mine (my sister Natalie could go with no sugar at all. From the way she acts at night you’d think she’d eaten nothing but pure sugar all her life! So that’s why I HATE MY DIET!!!!!!!!

I love how he throws his sister under the bus. And the excessive use of the word “many”.

And for the record Hershey’s are not the only candy he can have, it is the only one he likes.

Categories // Featured Articles Tags // ADHD, food diary, gluten free diet

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