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Adoption Tax Credit Tips + Important Info for Grant Families

10.07.2013 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

taxcredit-grantfamiliesLast Friday and Saturday I had the privilege of attending and speaking at the annual Together for Adoption conference in Louisville, Kentucky.

During one session I attended a breakout on the adoption tax credit with Becky Wilmoth from Bill’s Tax Service. We met last May at another conference and Becky’s been a great resource for me as people ask me questions.

Even still, I learned a couple new things in the breakout.

First was a great tip. If you, even before your adoption tax credit, anticipate receiving a refund from the IRS, fill out your regular federal income tax return WITHOUT claiming the adoption tax credit. File it and then, once you have received your refund, go back and amend your taxes and file for the adoption tax credit. Somewhere around 68% of returns filed claiming the adoption tax credit get held for further review and/or a request for additional documentation. This way if that happens to you, you entire refund is not being held up, just the adoption part.

Second, and this was completely new information for me, grant money received must be taken off the top of your expense total before figuring the amount to claim.

For example, here’s one scenario:

Total adoption expenses – $25,000
Grant money received – $15,000
Remaining qualified expenses – $10,000
YOU CAN ONLY CLAIM $10,000 of the adoption tax credit*

Scenario 2
Total adoption expenses – $25,000
Grant money received – $7,000
Remaining qualified expenses – $18,000
You can claim the full $12,970 credit (amount for 2013)

(*If your domestic adoption is declared a special needs adoption you get the full credit regardless of expenses. Does not apply for international special needs adoptions though generally your expenses will be above the limit.)

It is important that you adoption agency deduct the grant money received from your expenses and show an “after grant” total on your receipt. Without this, it is likely that the IRS will kick back your return for further documentation.

If you have questions about the adoption tax credit, contact Becky. They are located in Illinois but process returns from anywhere. They are THE GO TO PEOPLE for adoptive families. I send people to them all the time because most CPAs don’t know much about the tax credit and I can tell you tons of stories of tax returns that either got screwed up or families who were told they weren’t eligible when they were.

Even if your adoption was past (in the last 5 years) and you didn’t file, contact Becky and see if you DO qualify. She got a $46,000+ refund for a single mom whose tax preparer said her adoption of 4 kids didn’t qualify for the credit.

 

 

 

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When my husbands away I buy myself flowers

09.02.2013 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

Several times a year my husband disappears for 10-14 days at a time to travel to Ethiopia for work. He just returned from one such trip.

Before he leaves people always asks me “Will you be okay?” and give me a pitiful look like I’m a lovesick 16-year-old who can’t stand to be apart from her boyfriend for the length of History class.

We’ve been married 20 years. I’ll be fine.

Don’t get me wrong. Love him to death. Miss him while he’s gone. Super happy whenever he gets back.

But….

It’s kind of fun. Wait, maybe fun isn’t the right word. That makes it sound like I’m out clubbing ’til 1 a.m. every night. I’m not. I have kids to feed, homework time to get through, a taxi service to run and a bedtime to enforce.

But we’re both pretty independent people. We always have been. Before we had kids there was even a six-month period where I lived 4.5 hrs away M-F due to a work promotion/transitioning out of Army situation.

The point is, neither of us get weepy or clingy. Plus, it helps that we know the other person is having a great time. Mark loves his trips to Ethiopia (it’s like a second home) and so I’m glad he gets to do that as part of his job. When I’m traveling to speak to adoptive parents, he knows I’m in my element and loving every second.

flowersBut while he’s gone there are a few things I do “splurge” on. They make the separation not quite so bad.

  1. I warm the “banned” Scentsy scents. (If you don’t know what Scentsy is, it’s like scented candles only way better because the wax is melted by a small light bulb so no flame – safer, cleaner, etc.) I try my best not to buy super flowery scents, but on my last purchase only 1 of my 4 scents met the “super sniffer/allergy man” test. So when he’s gone I get to enjoy Beach and Kahiko Hulu. I even moved my Scentsy warmer up to the bedroom – GASP!
  2. I stay up ENTIRELY too late watching TV and chick flicks. Like 1-2 a.m. late. Which really isn’t healthy when you have to get up at 6:30 to get kids to school. How long til they drive themselves? Inevitably after a few nights I have an “early to bed” night and then start all over again.
  3. I make the bed. Sure I could make it all the time, but it’s so much easier when it’s just my side messed up and it takes a quick 5 seconds. His covers are all over the place so, despite the fact that I love a made bed, I rarely make it otherwise.
  4. I’m off the hook for dinner. Well, pretty much. We eat a lot more frozen pizza, hot dogs, grilled cheese, etc. while dad’s gone. Plus some nights I just tell them “fix whatever you want”. Not that Mark cares when I do these easy meals when he IS home, but I feel less guilty since the whole family isn’t together.
  5. I can eat without worrying if my chewing is disturbing him. There’s a whole other post in that issue, but basically Mark has “super hearing” (along with the “supper sniffer”) and frequently I bring a snack into the den and 60 seconds later he’s unplugging his laptop to go to a different room. Yes, my mouth is closed. No, I’m not chewing super loud food. He just has hyper sensitive hearing.
  6. I buy fresh flowers. Again, it’s the nose/allergy issue. Poor guy. On the rare occasions when I do have fresh flowers, they spend most of their time in the laundry room. Which kind of defeats the purpose. So this week I enjoyed a pretty vase of mixed flowers by my desk.

What about you? Is there something you do when your spouse is out of town to help make the time go easier?

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Mom on a schedule

08.08.2013 by juliegumm@yahoo.com //

All summer long my kids bemoan our “Summer Schedule.” To hear them you would think I have every second of their day scheduled when in reality it’s a very loose structure created to keep away the “I’m bored” and “I don’t know what to do” complaints.

And it works.

Now that school is about back in session, I’ve decided that mom needs some sort of loose schedule as well. My writing productivity tanks in the summer – heck, my productivity in general.

You would think that will all four kids in school, I’d have all kinds of time. But somehow it never seems like there’s enough.

Kind of like our money in the early days of marriage. We made plenty but had no idea where it went.

Rather than an hourly schedule, I’ve decided to just try and block my days.

I work two days a week.

I will set aside one day a week for appointments, errands, school involvement, calls, etc.

Two days a week go to writing or improving my writing (reading books, online courses).

No TV during the week unless Mark and I watch something together after the kids go to bed. So no Netflix during the day. I waste way too much time watching TV. I might designate Sunday afternoons as my lazy Netflix day.

The errand and writing days may vary from week to week depending on what is on the schedule.

I’m curious how other “alone during the day” stay at home mom’s manage their schedules. Any tips?

 

 

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